You know there are things money can’t buy you but you forget it you forget that fundamentally you’re on the same level as the richest people in the world you have to appreciate these things now so that when you have wealth your motivation and happiness can grow too so we’re here to remind you about these things treasure their work on them and know that no amount of money in the world can ever buy them for you
A Personality:
we’re starting at number one today with a personality everyone has a personality I mean that’s what makes you human right but some people are way more interesting than others and that’s not something that money can buy all the private school education sports activities and designer brands in the world only give you just a slightly brighter glow you still need a personality to bring all of those things together and there’s no amount of money out there that can get you a great personality studies show that people who focus on material wealth struggle to build deeper connections.
they rely on all of their life shapes stuff to tell their story but your story and personality affect your mindset and how you connect with other people you can be the poorest person in a room of rich people and everyone will still gravitate towards you, because well you make them feel good you make them feel something you bring intrinsic value to their lives even if it’s just a short conversation.
The Truth:
number two the truth is that a lot of money time emotions have been spent on trying to get the truth from someone if they’re not willing to give it to you there’s nothing you can do about it.
It’ll always remain hidden and if you’ve squeezed the truth out of someone with the promise of riches or the threat of fear then whatever they tell you isn’t going to be the full truth anyway begging someone for the truth will only keep them telling you what you want to because well that’s how they hold on to control you can only get the truth from truthful people and when you find the right people the truth is free.
A World Ruled by Sanity and Reason:
Number three a world ruled by sanity and reason a world ruled by sanity honesty and reason seems like a fair request but in all of human history it doesn’t seem like we’ve ever actually had that even now with the most advanced economies and political systems.
we still read the news in complete disbelief we’re gobs macked that the very people who now seem so unhinged money clearly cannot buy peace maybe it’s because humans are emotional by nature and emotions drive a lot of decisions but no amount of money can ever change how people feel or react to situations Albert Einstein nailed it when he said two things are infinite the universe and human stupidity.
We crave a word world that makes sense and feels safe and predictable but we’re never going to have that not really because fear anger and love Cloud your judgment and that’s just a part of The Human.
Natural Charisma and Charm:
Naturally Charming people and you’ve seen how they can control a room and effortlessly have all eyes on them well you know it’s not something that money can buy sometimes the most broke shabbiest looking people out there are like magnets in a Social Circle what on Earth has given them so much confidence as well it’s a step up from having a great personality.
People don’t just find you interesting they find you magnetic there’s a certain confidence with charismatic people that you can only possess if you’re a little bit delusional when you couple that with the ability to listen hold a great conversation and show genuine interest in other people well then you’ve got a recipe for Social Circle royalty Charisma comes from within it’s built on your confidence empathy and ability to connect with people.
Great, Loyal Friends:
Number five great loyal friends Think about this when a great genuine friendship has never been built on some financial transaction celebrities pay their assistants and makeup artists and they become their friends there’s something inauthentic about it neither sides don’t feel safe.
because it is still a transactional relationship the person paying their friend will always have a question lingering in the back of their minds wondering if that person is only around them for the money and the person getting paid well they’ll always feel like there’s a power imbalance in the friendship.
you can’t buy loyalty and love from a friend you can buy fear control even politeness but a friendship built on money is always going to feel flimsy and delicate real friendships are about understanding trust and emotional bonds things that come from shared time not shared.